So, you’re curious about femdom? Lots of men are! Lots of men these days give in to their deepest and most hardcore fantasies. After the increase in popularity of the trans fantasy, it’s time for the submissive men to let go and dive into the world of dom/sub relationships. If you are a man who wants to explore his submissive side, you should read the following paragraphs. This guide is also useful to any woman who wants to become a mistress. These are the basics of the femdom fantasy. You’ll learn about power dynamics, the different types of kinks you can experiment with, and the safety features you have to keep in mind when taking things to the next level.
How To Find A Partner
When it comes to femdom, there are different types of partners you can have. And the partner will also dictate the level of kink and hardcorness you can enjoy. One of the most common fantasies of men from all over the world is to turn their wives into a dominatrix. That’s the most logistically feasible and the most pleasurable way of doing it. When you have your mistress living under the same roof with you, the pleasure never stops.
But not all men have wives or girlfriends. Or some men who are in a relationship are not lucky enough to have an open minded partner who will explore the femdom fantasy with them. Those men have to go looking for submissive pleasure in other places. One of the most common solutions to this problem is offered by mistress escorts. There are mistresses on any escort directory out there. What’s nice about escort mistresses is that they have a lot of experience. You won’t have to worry about anything when hiring a dominatrix. She knows about all the kinks and how to execute them. She will even train you in being a good slave.
Booking a dominant mistress isn’t an option for all men. Some are married and don’t want to cheat, and some others are worried that their reputation would be compromised if caught engaging in sex work. If you are such a man, you should know that there are also online mistresses on live cam sex sites. And they can be way more pleasurable than you can imagine. There are so many activities you can enjoy in a private cam sex session with a live mistress. You might want to make sure that you can turn on your webcam when chatting with a live mistress. The play will be way more enjoyable, interactive, and immersive in a cam2cam private chat.
Different Types Of Femdom Dynamics
Femdom is a spectrum. You can go from sex-only domination to a 24/7 dom-sub relationship. Mistresses and purely for sex-only domination. They will be your mistress only for the time you pay them. It’s a similar thing with the live cam mistresses. However, some of the live dominas now offer domination pleasures when you’re not live with them. They can keep in touch with you through private messages and make sure you’re following their commands.
But the luckiest slaves are those whose mistresses are also their wives or girlfriends. You can only engage in femdom in the bedroom, or you can live your whole life as their submissive slave. There are lots of men who choose this lifestyle. And that can include wearing a cock cage 24/7. Usually, when you see a lady wearing a necklace with a key around her neck, that key is most likely from the cock cage of her slave partner.
Kinks And Toys
There is so much to discover within the world of femdom. And there are different categories of kinks. For some, you need nothing, just your imagination, while others require some toys and gear.
When you say femdom, you say BDSM. And when people hear about BDSM, they usually think about impact play kinks. The impact kinks are all about pain. They include spanking, slapping, kicking, and punching. They can also include all sorts ot BDSM toys, such as canes, paddles, and whips. In femdom, one of the most common impact play kink is CBT (cock and balls torture). But this is also one of the most dangerous kinks. You should tread carefully when experimenting with it. Make sure to take it easy.
Humiliation kinks are another side of femdom. The humiliation kinks won’t usually require toys and gear. But they require confidence and imagination. One of the most common humiliation kink is SPH, which stands for small penis humilation. CEI (cum eating instructions), sissification (cross dressing humiliation) or even cuckolding are forms of femdom humiliation.
If you want to get into femdom, you should also be willing to purchase some toys and put together a play chest. On the one hand, you can get all the classic BDSM toys, such as ropes, cuffs, canes, whips, and blindfolds. But then there are the femdom-specific toys. Cock cages are trending these days. But one of the best toys you can get is a strap-on. That’s for your pegging activities, which might be the most humiliating and pleasurable for the slave. The more you experiment, the more you’ll learn about the toys and gear that you need.
Safety Before Everything
Because femdom is a form of BDSM, you should employ all the safety fetures of BDSM. The safe word is sacred. It should be used whenever you feel like it and it should be respected by your dominatrix. Without a safeword, femdom is not possible.
Also, when it comes to impact play, you need to find your pain threshold. Don’t go crazy from the get-go. Start slow and have patience. You will push your limits eventually, and you will learn how to turn play into pleasure. But there’s no pleasure in hurting yourself.